Dear You
I'm gonna tell you guys something that does happen in real life
and at the end of it, I would appreciate if you could enlighten me
and I hope that whoever is reading this will put in their two cents worth
seriously.. an answer would be much appreciated.
Ok then.. Here goes..
Before I start let me just give a heads up
Couple of weeks ago, BF told me that he was at my previous working place
*(BF works as a meter-reader)
not exactly at my working place per se
but at the Technopark in Chai Chee
He was reading the meter at one of the companies in the
opposite block from where my previous
company was located
While there, these office girls zeroed in on him like piranhas
BF got nervous and called me
saying that he wants me to talk to him while he does
his work so that he will not be obligated to speak to them
so yeah.. I heard their voices in the background
and it was obvious that they were following his every moves
I heard them talking to each other loudly mind you
so that BF would hear
it went like this
'ey.. cute sei abang nie.. sape eh name dia?'
Translation: 'ey.. this guy is cute.. wonder what his name is?'
'agak2 dh attached tk? ade cincin pt jari dia'
Translation: 'wonder whether he's attached. there's a ring on his finger'
'alah. dh attached pn so wat? mungkin dia pakai cincin je suke2.'
Translation: so what if he's attached. maybe he's just wearing the ring for fun'
'yah. nk tau jugak ape rasenye main abg2 **. dh jelak uh main abg2 P****S'
Translation: 'yah. I wonder hw it feels like to fuck with guys from **. I'm getting
bored fucking P****S guys.
Note: - This is so not a lie. Can you imagine that?
I heard everything and I was like WHAT THE FUCK?!!
BF couldn't wait to leave. All this time he was talking to me mind you
their parting shot before he left was
'jgn step tk dgr. bebual ngan gf ke? I bole kasi u lagi bagus. pantat pn bole uh'
Translation: 'don't pretend that you can't hear. talking to your gf?
I can give you better. Even my ass'
Ok.. is it me.. or does that sound so wrong?
it's sounds to me that these office girls are cheap, shallow
and fucking desperate.!
Truth be told.. I was enraged. Not at BF
but at these girls.. Like FUCK I wanted to say
what the FUCK is wrong with you!
do they honestly think that they can get a guy interested in that
way?
so u just wanna fuck but to be so cheap?
is there no other subtle way?
So earlier today I met with the BF and as usual
he told me how his day went
apparently he and a few of his colleagues were there
to read meters in the blocks there
BF called me as usual and we chatted a bit
he told me that after he hung up
some office girls went past and one of his colleague S wanted
to get to know one of them
so his other colleague F went up to them
and told the girl that one of them wanted to get to know her
she asked which one and F said S
however she had different ideas
she told F that she wanted BF's number
F told her that BF was taken and going to be married
so she said ok, she will take S's number
F went back to them and told them the whole thing
not even 10 mins later she called S and said
'betol ke yg laki tadi dh nk kahwin?'
Translation: 'Are you sure that that guy is going to be married?'
S said ' yah. kenape u tanye eh?'
Translation: ' yes. why do you ask?'
Her 'wasted sei. my kwn nk kenal2 ngan dia. bole la. kwn je'
Translation: 'what a waste. my friend wants to get to know him. can?
as friends only'
S ' tk bole. dia tk interested'
Translation: 'Can't. He's not interested'
Her ' bole la. ckp ngan dia kwn je'
Translation: 'can la. tell him that it's just friends only'
S 'dia tk minat pompan mcm korang'
Translation: 'he doesn't like your type of girl'
Her angry ' HEY. CKP NGAN DIA KLAU HANDSOME TKPE!'
Translation: 'HEY. TELL HIM THAT IF HE'S HANDSOME NEVER MIND!'
ok.. what exactly happened here?
do you people notice that this is a typical response?
1st off.. she wanted to get to know MY BF..
then she called MY BF's friend and asked him to convince
MY BF to get to know her friend even though
she was told that MY BF was getting married
asked him to convince MY BF that it would be as friends only.
WHAT THE FUUUUUUUCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
then when S said that MY BF doesn't go for her or her friend's type
she puts down MY BF looks
few seconds ago.. she die-die wanted MY BF's number
then when she didn't get it
she acts like it's MY BF's fault?
I was laughing when BF told me this. No worries I'm the cool type
that's why BF don't mind telling this to me
he knows I will laugh it off.
I totally appreciate it. Other guys would just keep it to themselves
Happened to me a few times too thoughOne time while I was working at Insomnia
there was this electrician
everytime I walk by him and I really had to cause
he was doing some wiring at the bar and I had to bartend
so anyways everytime I walk by him
he would say in a low voice
'lawa uh dia. badan baik'
Translation: 'so pretty. hot body'
I just ignored him
Then he would break out into a few bars of this song
'Gadis Idaman'
Translation: 'Dream Girl'
so technically he's saying I'm pretty with a hot body AND
implying that I'm his Dreamgirl
I got fucking irritated I tell you
So while I was talking to my manager Cat who was smirking cause
she knew what was going on
And he broke out into that song
I immediately said loudly
'OH MY GOD. SUARA KLAU SEDAP TKPE!'
Translation: 'OH MY GOD. IF THE VOICE IS NICE I DON'T MIND'
Right then and there he went into defensive mode
and complained loudly to his colleague
who was a man in his 40s or so
* the guy was around my age or so
'PLS LA. KLAU LAWA TKPE'
Translation: 'OH PLEASE. IF PRETTY NEVER MIND'
honest to GOD
I burst out laughing
Even Cat was giving him a look
and she said 'hey. tadi ckp ngan aku kau nk kenal2 ngan dia. ckp dia lawa la.
ape la
beh skg tau tk dpt terus tarik balik kate2 kau. kental la
nampak sgt hypocrite'
Translation: 'hey. earlier u told me u wanted to get to know her. said she pretty
and all that
then when you realised that you won't be able to get to know her
you pull back your words. what a loser.
you're so obviously a hypocrite'
his colleague couldn't take it anymore and laughed
while he said to that guy
'next time don't anyhow'
now you see what I mean by typical?
honestly I have had my fair share of rejections
but even I don't said those kind of things
I will mostly just say ok and move on
I totally don't see any need to retract back my compliments
just because I was rejected.
I am very much ashamed with how these office girls
acted. I myself work in an office but I don't act that way
my colleagues don't act that way
my friends who works in offices don't act that way
What is the world coming to when as a woman
you totally have no shame in implying that you're easy
The ironic part is that sometimes these girls
are attached, engaged and/or married
yet if their other half were to do
these kind of things
they would blow their top
I believe in the saying which is the ultimate favourite
'what goes around comes around'
luckily BF and I are a very open couple
TRUST is not a problem to us
and both of us mutually agree that we wouldn't
want to get to know anyone unnecessarily
who in all probability could jeopardise our relationship.
So ladies and gentlemen
please enlighten on the behaviours of these people
cause I'm am honestly lost about their attitudes